Until you realize they wanna control you, until they start to get aggressive if anyone looks at you in any way, until they make you show them all your texts and social media because they're afraid you are cheating, until they show up uninvited because they didn't want you to be with out them, and until they think you can't dress up and look good unless they're going out with you.
Why Can something that makes you feel so good, makes you feel so trapped?
Love The person who tells you to be safe when you go out, not the one who gets mad 😡 .
Remember it's a partnership, not a ownership.
It seems like they love you, they're obsessed with you. But then you realize that obsession is toxic. It's based on insecurities and ego.
Don't Let anyone control you, you're not a puppet. Love does not mean control. Love is genuinely giving yourself to someone else.
If They make you feel guilty when you spend time with your friends, that's control.
The behavior of ownership and control can take so many different forms. It's important to observe.
The only way to be sure it's these 2 signs :
1. It's pulling you away from anyone and everything that you're close to.
2. It's making it seem like they're the only person in your life.
Remember, love the person who tells you to be safe when you go out. Not the one who gets mad 😡 .
Partnership is not a ownership
