Personality and physique

Physique is not your height, not your weight, not your features. It's your personality,  It's your maturity, it's your self confidence.

It's a such a belief especially in Indian system, black skinned people don't appear pretty... Black is one colour and fair is an another colour.... What's the difference.... Dry skin is one type, oily skin is another type.... No difference there. But that belief of blacks and chubbies are not pretty for looks rooted deeply into the brains from many years. I underlined brains, because that myth didn't root into the Hearts. Many people attracted by the Blacks and chubbies, but they judged as they don't know priorities. Want to find, experience and enjoy the worth in the person, not on the person. Want to find who's worthy for you, not to your stastus with their skin colour.

no make-up on the face, not blow-dried my hair, it's really natural Beauty Thing. At that time We Could see our face pores, We could See Swelling, We could see Freckles, We  could see so much. But We expect our face look like Photoshopped, Filtered to smooth out our faces for Instagram. We all do it, I have also done it. Why do We do it? Why We feel the need Constantly, as a Women especially to Smooth out our face so much Where We have no Wrinkles, no Blemishes, no nothing. For Eons, We have been told as Women that this is what We should look like and this is the standard of beauty We need to follow.  We've always been told that one of us can win, and only the best one will get the cutest boy, and only the best one will get the job.

We spent so much time elbowing eachother out of the way, pulling eachother down. For a second, Love ourselves, Respect ourselves.  We do not need all of these magazines and talkshows to tell me how to lose the Weight, how should i starve because i wanna please a man. Whatever the instant might be, we look at a picture of  ourself not using filters, looking ourself after waking up in the morning, recognize what we are doing ourselves, Self-hate, Self-doubt. We are berating ourself. We have enpough people doing that to us anyway. Why do we need to do it to ourselves?

Let's love ourselves. These colour, physique, feature things are all just Superstition Beliefs.

Body makes you sexy, Smile makes you pretty, But your personality makes you beautiful.