Love

Why do you love me?" He heard her whisper, he closes his eyes, a tear forming sure to stain his pillow.

I love you because I do. I love you because my heart beats your name, my mind drowns in your eyes, my soul feels yours even when we are miles apart.

I am not asking to love you. Don't need to love you, but I love you just the same. I love you because something, somewhere, directed me to you, it is my soul, and you are it's mate.

She asked Do you tempt of my beauty and wealth? or you want sex? What you like in me asked very angrily,

He replied one by one.....

Beauty is not about looks that you appear, beauty is the glow in your face when you see me, the soul you have, the mature mind you have.....
And I never think love is not about how the external looks are, but how much both mingle with each other...

I have enough money for my survival and I can work hard for my increased wealth... No need of others...

When you talk about relationship, sex is not only happiness, it's one of the happiness.

I like the way you breathe...You are my princess, you are that place forever...I came to know now only that one person misses others this much...

No problem you are with me or not... Be happy where you are... But your place in my heart remains same...

I never expect anything from you... Do what you want except leaving me...

Share your hard days also, not only happiness, scold me if you don't like me or man handle me... But remain with me...
Can't live with out you...

You know one thing... From the starting of my answers I'm in weeping... Don't know it's why...

Upto now I don't know that one person emotionally connected and admire other this much.... Don't know that I misses one this much...

You know one, love is connected to heart  and soul, not about money and relation....

You are a cute little angel  for me, like a infant for me.... You are my luck... You have that place forever even if you are with me or not...

Don't know how we mingle this much from strangers to this admiring level...I never think about the qualities why I liked you and why these all happen....

I want to see you happy, I want to see your smile forever....

Never hesitate to ask anything... Never leave me alone... If you want to put me in a cage, I surrender for my self...

Observe one thing.... Every time we meet our eyes speak immediately before the moment our lips speak..

I love you because something, somewhere, directed me to you. It was my soul, and you are its mate.

No hurry.... We have so many golden days ahead, where your sensible parts can love it, feel it... Our relationship not meant to be for that only, it's just one of the way to build a golden bride.

She saw him with eyes of spirit and listen him with her heart ... Don't need any words when the love touches the heart ... Somewhat she whispered....ya..I have seen awesome surprise and admiration in your eyes for this awesome girls existence...I discovered something which you didn't reveal me and you are so happy to find me also.....
You know one... You introduced a new me in me...

He replied....I love not only you...I love your whole world....I want not only you, your world also. I want you are very happy in your world and want a real you in that world.
I see any girl as a sex appeal only before you in my life, but you changed me a lot, now I see my mother in every girl, you changed my attitudes.... May be these all seem to be silly for all, but a lot to me.

She murmured I'm not that much cute... I'm not worth for all your love.... He answered how I can't like my self Ammu...? You are me and I am you.....She hugged him cringly.....

Intimacy and caring

Being woman is an attitude.

Sigmund Freud famously asked one Question....but He didn't have the answer.

What do women want?

The Question is so simple, but not easy to answer.

On one hand, there is considerable evidence that women seek and place a premium on a sense of intimacy and emotional closeness with their sexual partners.

The intimacy in a relationship depends upon the caring which he shown... His touch, his kiss, His hug, caring of her interests and hobbies make her felt for him.

Woman need to be constantly reassured that they are loved and cared for. They look the love mostly in caring. Very simple things also feel them more cared which give them secured.

Acts like holding their hands while walking down the road, watching the sunset, the occasional hug and peck on the cheeks and making sure that they cross the road safely mean that they are proud to be seen with them and care for them. Teaching driving kiddingly, call her name haskily also adore them much.Smile or glint at their eyes make them feel very special.

I heard in our village while all wondering why that rich, beautiful lady selected a ordinary guy with normal looks for marriage while many offerings of rich, handsome guys Infront of her. I can definitely conclude that the guy is so much cared towords her.

And in another case a girl not leaving her hubby who drinks much and annoy her daily even the family members of her forcing her to give divorce. In this case also caring towords her dominates his bad habit.

In my words lack of caring towords the girl is the biggest bad habit of a guy rather than drink and smoke, etc.

That we see in our houses, loved ones bring tasty and delicious snacks for the spouses, while they back from their work stations, those are not appetites, these are act of caring for their partner, even to satisfy one of her instincts and finding a way to her heart 💓by starting a conversation in that cool evening with a cool atmosphere in and out..... That care in that evening bring them closer and improves their intimacy.....

She want that freedom of can text you about her fears and dreams even at 3AM... She wants to be always in the back on your mind, no matter how distracted you are.... She wants to be a dream for you... She get into intimacy with actually that situation and then the guy.

She crave you in the most innocent form even for your forehead kiss to her. She adores you when you feel at your worst.

Even today , the Question of what motivates female sexual desire continues to resound, But what men want in general, their sexual desire is orderly consistent, and narrowly directed.

In this scenario also, the man can win her heart 💓 and can bring her in his way by caring and affection only. Once care for her... She will care for your desires. She shows her depth of love, by delightfully care for your desires in your most intimate place. You can feel the intimacy like connecting so deeply, feel like she can see into your soul.

I know....

Woman dig guys with a cool and peaceful attitude.

Men and women are different

Men are frustrated with women because they never want sex.

Women are frustrated with men because they always want sex.

Women blame men that they don't know how to love.

Men blame women that they only talk about love but don't want to make it.

By knowing the natural qualities and instincts of the opposite sex, you will be able to get rid of your frustrations about the opposite gender.

The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is predominantly male hormone. A normal male's body produces 20 times more of this hormone than a female's.

In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.

Knowing this simple difference, you can already understand the pain of the opposite gender. It's not their fault: they are made this way! It's in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are women.

Men and women are DIFFERENT.

Not better or worse, just different.

A man can father a child every time he has sex, and a woman can only mother a child every two years or so. This means, a woman has to be picky about who she allows to have sex with her.

For generations women were paying too high a price for making a wrong choice. Women that have chosen men with bad genes had a weaker offspring and their children struggled to survive. Women that have chosen men with good genes had a stronger offspring and their children survived disproportionably. Those children were carrying their picky mother's genes and this is why those female genes were passed to us.

On the other hand, men never had adverse consequences of making a wrong choice. The more children they produced, the higher was their chance to pass their genes to future generations, as some of them would certainly survive. While men were determined to seek better genes too, they had to grab all chances to procreate coming their way to ensure their genes would be passed forward. The men that only stuck with one woman (even a high quality woman) were losing genetically to the men that used all of their opportunities and had many more children that survived. Those children were carrying their father's promiscuous genes, and this is why those male genes were passed to us.

By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can spread their seed wider.

By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so they can make a better choice and get the best seed.

Men seek quantity - women seek quality.

This is why men seek sex and women seek love.

Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that the man will stick around and help her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional commitment to a man.

For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear after they got what they wanted: it wasn't love; it was the testosterone pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion.

This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite. When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing - and once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future relationship - and love.

Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.

All of this happens on the unconscious level - we do NOT realize what's going on.

But the reason why you are here today and alive is because each and every of your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts and managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce an offspring.

So, there is no need to be bitter about men wanting sex and women wanting love. Those two are the necessary pieces of the puzzle called Survival Of The Species.

And you'll be better off understanding what the other gender is going through and giving them exactly what they want: a mind-blowing sex or exhilarating love.

Emotions

Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner. For some, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element of life, providing a source of deep fulfillment. The ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not innate. A great deal of evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship begins in infancy.

                         For
                            The
                               Man
                                 Who
                               Fills up
                                   My
                              Senses
Each time you
         Enter a room
      The sudden wonder
                  Of you....
                                     .... Fills the air
                                              Like perfume.
                                        I close my eyes and
                                           Breathe you in...
..... Until at last you
        Are so close
To my heart 💓and soul as
Anyone could ever be.

      I LOVE YOU WITH MY ENTIRE BEING

You are a perfect example, of what love is all about.....
         .               I cherish our love....

You' re always on my mind,
Every moment of the day....
Our love is here to stay....
Our love's forever true....
With tender thoughts of you...
With your gentle tender touch...
I love you so very much.

I thank God for created a person like you for me,
I thank your parents who have you birth for me,
I thank my parents who gave me birth to love you,
I thank to the lovely moment which made happen for me to saw you,
I thank your Heart 💓 for having similar beat for my Heart 💓

Ammu, if we looked back our past, We didn't have fights for atmost common fights of all couples Money, Family and Attention.
  Everyone looks perfect, with no complaints before you look beneath the surface.

Like the way I was the head strong and short tempered,  But You are the reason for our  Happy, Successful Relationship.
  It's not all about Holiday cruises, Romantic walks or Plans for the Future, It's not even about Cards and Gifts with Hearts and pics, Not views from Rooftops or Fancy Dinners at new spots. It's all about how our Hearts 💓 flied together and reached Happiness.

Ammu, Do you remember, if i shared something reflective which you often gets defensive and corrective and then also you never let me stand offended.

Do You remember, You told me many times, We don't want to do somethings for a purpose....

Conflicts and Disaggrements are often occurs in our relationship, But we took the things completely out of proportion because of you only.
Relationships are literally worth fighting for, So we must fight together...
We love eachother even in the moments that we don't like eachother...
I softened my judgements, speak how i like to be spoken to, learnt to affirm before i complain...
I knew You care for me...
Approach the situation with compassion, starting with empathy...

Slowly my short temper, ego went in their path... They knew they can't survive in your shadow of matured character.

I made known because of you only...Love does'nt need to be perfect, it just need to be true.