Break-up

Have you ever felt your life shake ? Have you ever been hit with so much emotional turmoil to the point where everything around you becomes fuzzy and shaken? Your lungs feel tight and for a brief second you can’t do anything. You are unable to move, unable to think, unable to even react. I have, I experienced something I never thought I would experience.....

Bloody logic less magic Love gave all these experiences..... Sorry.... not love, Break up gifted for me all these stuff.

Few months back, the miracle Love happened in my life.....Love is the dare of which we can kiss even the Everest. Many poets and writers tried to tell many about its colour, taste, smell, but can't conclude the love because it's unpredictable.

Little things of the love like phone calls, the dates, long drives given even the memories. Love is knowing you in you. Mesmerized in knowing you we can see only positive side of our love. The toughest thing Break up happens only when you see the real person in whom you addicted.

Body Language

Hi, all get ready by making your body with moisturisers, creams, powders, lipsticks,etc. You are thinking that you are taking care of your body much..... No definitely not..... When you hear to your body only, it's done that you are taking care of your body.

Getting confusion.... that's what we want to hear from our body.... Generally all writers tell that listen to your heart .....

Just because I speak as your own voice... does not make me imaginary. There is no other voice you can hear inside yourself but your own. Every voice is yours. And likewise, every voice is Mine ..

Engage your body in a heartfelt conversation, with hope, but having no idea what to expect. After about some time of this focused communication, something amazing will happen.

Every part of your body has its own consciousness or its own soul. transformative words feel your journey to discover the extraordinary paths..

Your Heart pounded the path to your freedom from this condition will finally begin.
Approach your body with genuine compassion, understanding that it is made up of conscious cells who experience emotions.

I have found that when communicating, there are three key steps to gaining the cooperation of the body:

Approach your body with genuine compassion, understanding that it is made up of conscious cells who experience emotions.                                                   
Build trust by engaging your body in mental conversations about your desire for the two of you to cooperate...                                   
Allow changes in the conversation by using different thoughts and words that elicit spontaneous elevated emotions.

After conversation we can communicate our body by TOUCH only..... Touch can change even our attitudes also...
Let's pick a person, who comes near to your heart from this amazing world whether it is your same gender or opposite....
Why because skin can't respond for it's own touch, can't tickle it's own....
Body doesn't react when touch by their own, skin can observe other persons intentions by their touch whether that person has love, hate, anger, etc, skin can identify who touched you whether it's your mother or your love.... Even in your sleep.
Skin can tell you anyone observing you from the backside if you talk to your skin.

One word reveals more than 1000 messages, and one touch reveals more than 1000 words....

Language is a bridge to share the feelings, but they can communicate only when both know a similar language......

But with out words also two people can communicate....

Don't want to try.... Don't want to even talk... Body can speak even without our try.... Male and female can identify the signals of cherished..... Words can cheat.... But language of body can't cheat. They truly come from the heart 💓 for all the ages....

It's very natural to give smile for known persons, there is much difference in casual smile and loving smile. The smile which comes for our lovables don't stop with lips, lightning the eyes, eyes will become big..... By that beautiful smile with big eyes we can tell our heart.....

Generally persons bend in sitting or a standing position for opponents to express their willingness... That's the one of the expressions of the body for their liked ones... Listening carefully admiringly to others is the sharing of their love.... Talking with hasky voice in bending position is a signal of love.....

Searching others affection and interests in their eyes with their eyes....

Eyes display their willingness by turning them from opposites eyes to shoulders, chest and depends upon their interests....

Sometimes ladies express their Willingness by seing sides of the guy with a different smile of nervousness💃... Really it's a great expression of love of ladies.... The guys who understand this expression is the luckiest....had One of the beautiful moments in the world of love.....

Degrading

Degrading comes from a lenient view of the other person. The lenient view of the person starts because of their higher studies, higher profession, higher status compared to the other person.

Higher Studies, profession and status are meaningful depends only upon their interests.

From the ages, man has lenient view upon the woman who shares love with them. This appears in rural and lower class people in these days also,  Husband has a lenient view towords the wife.

The degrading view in the persons appears in the words automatically with out their knowledge and spoils the relationships.

Sometimes the degrading comes out as anger and didn't allow the other person to discuss or argue.

Richness

Richness doesn't depend upon the place where we went or what we spent for the occasion. It depends upon the person who accompanied us.

We can enjoy road side pani Puri also with a rich accompany rather than a rich restaurant.

Can cherish in red bus rather than air bus with a hearted guy even arguing.

A perfect fit spouse or friend is a perfect fit for our accompany like a comfortable suited fashion rather than uncomfortable rich new fashion dress.

The richness of every day life is the mind fullness.

Never Beg

How pleasant the world is..... My Heart beats wakes me up with a beautiful rhythm... The morning sun ⛅ rays touching my feet with their warmth hug... Came to this world with the message...Good Morning... Awake by the endearment call... Indulged.... Pamperings.... Carings.... Care for my driving... Care for my food.... bouquets...snap chats.... Video calls... Short meets... Long weekends... Teasings... Kiddings.... Dying to pick others calls... Shiny moments... Great Enjoyments... Brining our best...The way smiled with me...Looked at me...Getting held my hand...Throwing my forelock back...thrillings...Thought literally we are made for each other...

Something is changing... Ticking along totally fine.... Sense ignoring.... Less available... Something going on.... Not return calls and texts.... Feel distant... Accusing of not caring enough... Stopped discussing future..... No excitements...

Long time gone after sunrise, but me still in darkness... Texting... Calling... Pleasing to meet... No replies... Walk aways... Build up of resentment...

My foot don't want to get down.... Darkness around me.... Punishment for no mistake....

I can't tolerate.... My heart asking about the person... Can't allow me to cherish... Draining... Hopelessness... Exhausted...

But understood want to walk away.... It's not right to lead a toxic relationship...

Never beg someone to be with you.....
Never beg for attention, commitment, affection, time, effort....
Never beg someone to come back or stay...
Never beg someone to be in your life....

Begging is demanding and degrading....

If someone doesn't willing with their arms wide open, they are not worth it...

Want to walk away.... It's my self respect....
No need to chase people.... Want to work hard.... Be an example...

The people who belongs in my life will come... Find me... Who will love me... Who will stick around me when times get tough... Will be proud of me.... Will treat me well... Will make me their priority..... What I deserve... Nothing less.....

Everyone who is in our life is meant to be a part of our journey, but not all of them are meant to stay.....

If someone is stupid enough to walk away from us, be smart enough to let them go far.

Never beg while creating a new world for you...
Never beg while showing new path to your followers...

Human Touch

Human Touch- hugging, hand holding, cuddling and other outlets of contact can be beneficial physically and emotionally. Oxytocin for the win!

Touch contains several health benifits for our social and psychological well being.

Hugging induces Oxytocin, The Bonding Harmone , increasing a sense of trust and security. Hug is the greatest immunity Booster. 

The gentle pressure on the sternum and the emotional charge it creates stimulate thymus gland, which regulates the production of white blood cells, which keeps us healthy and disease free.

The lack of physical touch might be making us lonely. The term skin Hunger is a psychological one that can also be called Touch hunger.

Teen-agers want the touch of opposite sex in parents. Teenage girl wants her father's touch whereas Teenage boy wants her mother's touch. By this familiarity of this good touch, they can easily identify the bad touch and can come across their difficult times easily. Our Indian culture is very poor in psychological study. A teenage girl wish for her father's holding her shoulder in her deep times, which is not acceptable in our culture. 

Actually shaking hands is a good way of finding the feelings of the other person by his touch. But we believe namaskar as good samskar.

Platonic touch is an important way to bond, communicate, and promotes trust and security. One touch expresses 1000 words. Go... And touch the person warmly with your genuine Feeling who's arguing with you.... Your dispute will vanish. Touch gives clarity to so many uncleared emotions. 

Our lack of non-sexual physical touch is greater cultural problem and the main reason for the disputes between couples and for many divorces.

Missing Me

I miss me...The very me....The old me....The happy me...The bright me....The smiling me...The laughing me...The gone me...

I say I'm fine....But going insane.....
I say I feel good...But in lot of pain...
I say It's nothing...But it's really alot...
I say I'm okay.....But really I'm not...

I was a Real entertainer, I was always making everyone laugh...
I kept myself....I just had this infectious energy
I had a dream of colors...How i want to be.....
I got along with everyone...i was in life of laughs and dreams....
Before I persue it seriously.......emotionally abused......isolated by  family for being black.....Tsunami came....

They ask "How are you doing? But They mean is "Are You over it yet?"
My Lips say "Fine, Thanks", But my eyes tell a different story, My heart sings a different tune, and my soul just weeps....

I smile...but want to cry...
I talk....but want to be quiet...
I am never seen in same outfit twice....but not comfortable....
Boxes and boxes of shopping...but no peace....
I pretend that i'm happy...but i'm not...
Thought that perfect girl with the perfect life, the perfect world with the perfet guy....But nothing is perfect...Right....
It seems I'm always having the best time with friends...
assuming always driving...travelling..new experiences and great stories to share...
No one to walk with me...No one really knows me...Masked my sadness with the Ideal life...
Always flying high in the air, but felt low inside...
Inbox is always full....but felt empty with in...
Happy on the outside, But struggling with the Heart inside....
I have an addiction that everyone called a "lifestyle"....
People are just occupied by my physical appearance...


Pain is not obvious...
I search optionals to drown my pain, but the pain learnt how to swim....
I am sick of crying, tired of trying, smiling but inside I am dying...
Its amazing how all know me but still don't know me at all...
It's very stressful to explain whats going on in my head...
When I don't even understand myself...
I use filters to lighten my photos when I carry the heavy weight of stress....

But I want someone who knows how i really feel...
Want to spend quality time face to face...
Want to be some one's dream...
I don't want to live for approval of others....

Only can document the moments I'm most love with my self...

I fight endlessly with the unseen enemy, fight battles that nobody knows about ...which can't seem to outside....
Feel something, Say nothing; Smile and Drink the Poison...

The worst thing in life is to end up alone....

Positive appearance

When you’re dating someone new, it’s natural to put your best foot forward. We put a little extra thought into our appearance, and let’s admit it: we also do our best to curb bad behavior.

Suppressing the less attractive side of your personality only works for so long. Hey, we’re human. We get angry, irritated, hungry and tired; and when that happens, a different side of us emerges. And usually, it’s not pretty.

This isn’t the spell of love being broken. It’s what eventually happens in all healthy relationships, and it’s an opportunity. An opportunity to observe what happens when life throws your partner a curveball.