Marriage and wedding

Many People get proposed everyday, Many marriages are arranging everyday.

We all know how the story goes.....He asked "will you marry me?"....She said "yes". How Romantic it is to see or hear.

But we are arranging our marriages by balancing our communities, by balancing our proporties. How  perplexed the situation is...

We get excited about the wedding day, but forget about what it means to be in a Marriage.

Which one we want to prepared for...Marriage or Wedding....

Let's look out the money behind the Wedding...

The Indian wedding industry currently accounts for over Rs. 1,00,000 croresand is growing at a rapid rate of 25-30% each year. An average Indian wedding could cost between 20 lakhs to 5 crores. A person in India is estimated to spend one-fifth of the total wealth accumulated in his lifetime on his wedding.

wedding gifts, gold ornaments, decorations, Honeymoons, outfits, food......We want to have incredible weddings, But we also want to build incredible marriages.

We have advisors for wedding planning, But we don't have marriae mentors.

How much stronger would our marriages be if we are converting them as weddings...

Wedding needs planning, But marriage requires committment...
Wedding needs organisation, But marriage requires Adoptobility..
Wedding needs a Date, But Marriage requires a lifetime....
Wedding needs a guest list, But marriage requires a community...
Wedding needs a set of vows, But marriage requires consistent gratitude....
Wedding needs a wedding out fit, But marriage requires complete transperency....
Wedding needs a gratitude, marriage requires practicality....
Wedding needs words, But marriage requires action....

We all want to have a marriage more beautiful than wedding......
It's better to have a small wedding and a big marriage then to have a big wedding and a small marriage...

Marriage is not a public function, it's a private thing which mostly connected love, emotion and feel... We can show and feel that feel only with few. Very costly marriages are vulgarity of wealth and exhibition.

We are ready to walk down the aisle, but are we ready to walk a thousand miles?
We can all have an amazing day but not at the expense of an amazing life....

Live for the moments you can't put in words

Woman is the most amazing gift a man can have. She cares about you, she loves and she also annoys you the most. There are many habits a woman has that are really annoying for man.
Habits like keep calling him, act like child while doing something, talking selfies, watching them and then delete them and do again the same, spending too much time in shopping etc are some of the most annoying thing about woman according to a man.
Yes! But now I understood that the crazy things also liked by me...

I’ve never loved anyone the way I love her. I never knew I could feel like this. So deep. Fulfilling. Amazing. I can tell her anything; my dreams, my fears, my strengths, my flaws.

“I trust her with my secrets. She understands me more than anyone. And I know everything about her. She tells me everything. She’s even more beautiful on the inside than she is on the outside. I’d die for her and she would do the same for me. I don’t know why God didn’t send her into my life until now, but He did. We were meant to be together.”


As our relationship deepend, I began to hide the amount of time We spent together, the increasing number of calls or texts, and the escalating emotions you felt for eachother. Neither considered the possibility that We violated boundaries as friends. It might have started with a conversation over the internet, or with a seemingly innocent friendship in the workplace. It began as an uncomplicated thought....
Unlike her spouse....i understood her well.

Crossing the line from platonic friendships into romantic relationships.... Began relationship at an innocuous level, and it processed to something more. Woman are well trained naturally to put their emotional needs ahead of their erotic needs. They have much to gain from choosing stable relationships over the physical pleasure.

He looked at her, a smitten awe marking his face. A narrow streak of twilight sweeped its way through the window of the dim lit room and comfortably settled on her cherubic face. Her hair was unkempt and loose, a few strands of it outreaching her cheeks. She glared deep into his sombre eyes, the darkness making them more surreal, the closeness more real. Before he could, she cupped his face in her hands and gently glided her thumb on his lips which suddenly seemed to come to life. She then leant forward and let her lips meet his.

His hand on her back was clenched more tightly as they dwelled into the moment, exploring each other. As their lips parted, they looked deep into each other's eyes. A subtle nuance marked them now. He sifted his body closer to hers. She then angled herself and kissed his neck, this time a more passionate kiss, a lasting embrace of love. She then held his hand and placed it on her belly, below her navel. As he gently kissed her earlobe, he found his hand slipping under her pleated skirt for the first time. As it dug deeper, his fingers lost in a world of their own, rather found one. He titilated her as his fingers examined a room for themselves. She held him, her grip strong, her eyes wanting, as she undid his shirt to find his bare muscular chest. As his hand still remained involved, he undid her blouse with the other. She solemnly brought her lips closer to his chest and kissed it. The wet sensation lingered on for a while. He then brought his involved hand to remove the last bit of cloth on her breasts. He ran his hand through the valley and gently caressed her breasts. They undressed each other completely to find themselves vulnerable and wanting at the same time. He lifted her in his arms, loosening her hair as she crossed her arms around his neck and took her to bed. He laid on the bed, on top of her, his hand clearing the hair off her face.

Finally in that dark, star lit night their bodies met in the most natural manner. They made love to each other, the imperfect bodies uniting to make the most impeccable love.

All those sweepy looks, the tinted smile and that sudden craving too those glittering eyes, and gone, madly in love!

It is the moment when you know someone sees the real you, sees into you and likes what they see. It is intimate and vulnurable and raw and sacred. It is the possibility.

They just need to find what is comfortable for them and Choose what works between them.  They don't need to follow some predefined scenario what relationship means. They customize their relationship.

Love and Harmones

Love is natural....everyone loves...can't escape from Love....love is differnt types...

This is one of the most important questions when it comes to romantic relationships. A great number of studies that have been conducted prove that we really can control love. Because in general, this is just a basic psychological emotion like fear, joy, pity, and other emotions that can be regulated if they are monitored well. In fact, love is not about “fate.” This is a collaboration of biological, chemical, and psychological mechanisms. It is possible to find the right approach to these and use them for your own purposes.

Love not only makes us feel elated and have butterflies in our stomachs, but it generally has a great influence on our entire bodies whether it be by blushing and sweating excessively or by going through hormonal and psychological changes. it is so obvious that we can easily identify when a person is in love  with you even they pretend to be indifferent.

Group of certain Harmones  is responsible for strong feelings. The relese of these Harmones makes people experience romantic feelings and passion that they can't control very well.

If the emotional and sexual preferences match, Men become more romantic, tender, and attentive because of Oxytocin, while Women experience a burst of energy and high sex drive because of Testosterone. But unfortunately, when the level of harmones returns to its normal state, women feel lack of attention and men miss the number of intimate moments.

Men unconsciously prefer women whose voice pitch is high and womanly, as our instincts indicate us such a voice indicates that woman is caring and reliable, and is ready for long term relationship. A lower voice attracts men only physically........When Woman speaks to her beloved, her voice unconciously gets softer and higher. Their voice pitch came to lower with more vibrations to be more attractive.

A guy or girl of their dreams comes into their life, cherish them, cheeks get red can't hide the fire colour. Blushing make you more attractive and can make you more likeable. The redness of cheeks  is due to cherishness of something personal, not connected to physical pleasure. That redness of the cheeks of the face indictes likeliness towords the others. your redness face shows that you want to avoid excessive attention, giving the impression of shy, and less narcistic. Finally if blushing is uncontrollable, we can say that it's the most reliable features of honesty.

A relation ship or marriage is happier only when a woman is caring and supportive.

Eyes plays very important role at the beginning and in a relation. Eyes movements are the most reliable signals when it comes to understand our mood while spending with our beloved. pupil dilation depends not only on light but on our emotional state as well.

Confusion, nervousness, mood swings, loss of appetite, and fatigue are symptoms that are caused by falling in love.

CORTISOL  A stress Harmone can be one of the reasons for our suffering because people experience lots of emotions and great stress while falling in love.
Blood vessels in our stomach constrict and we feel nausea, all unpleasent symptoms go away when the relationship becomes more stable.

OXYTOCIN   The thing Love or Fear literally gives us super powers. This is due to the Oxytocin that is released in our systems when we fall in Love. It can actually increases our tolerence for physical pain. so we're propably heard that people do impossible things in emergency situations like mothers lifted cars with their own hands to free their children, etc.

It's a love Harmone, it's a signalling chemical. It fills the love, belief in the behaviour. It helps to create and continue the relation supplements. It's the enemy for depression. Oxytocin acts actively only when we are carings and lovables towards others. Massage and Exercise helps the Harmone to reach all body parts.

When two people are physically intimate, whether having sex or cuddling close on the couch, the brain releases oxytocin, a hormone which makes people more trusting and open to social interactions.

DOPAMINE it's the happy giving Harmone. We can aim a target and can concentrate due to this Harmone. Again exercise and protein foods and banana are the sources of this Harmone.

ENDORPHINS when you exercise, your body releases chemicals called endorphins. These endorphins interact with the receptors in your brain that reduce your perception of pain. Endorphins also trigger a positive feeling in the body, similar to Morphine🤔.

SERATONIN This is also a happy Harmone. It balances our mental condition. It controls Depressions. Experiences happiness. Feels everything happy. Meditation controls mental pressure and increases this Harmone.