Tuesday 27 February 2018

Purpose of life

All of us were gifted with great mystery of life.... that is our living in the world. When we attain few years of age, we start realising the realities of the world.
Privilege, power, society, culture... Most of our lives surrounded these elements.... But still don't know what's the purpose of life...
We are very busy in search of happiness.... But has no peace of mind... Even if we succeed in achieving their objectives, we remain dissatisfied. Our search for peace and happiness, therefore never ends....
So concluding that we, humans are not natural or not upto the purpose of as advised by the nature.
Ok.... Let's take the guidence of science.. Means researches of scientists....
Scientists researched much about nature and concluded that
ALL LIFE HAS BUT ONE PURPOSE, PERPETUATE IT SELF, THE HUMAN LIFE IS TO CREATE NEW HUMAN LIFE THAT WILL CREATE NEW HUMAN LIFE. THAT'S ALL THERE IS TO IT.
Every animal has their own purpose of life.....
Every single creature on the planet has a role to play...
the purpose of humanity is to survive and reproduce ....
Our body r interested only Reproduction and survival. Not on your social values!        
Let's explore....
Many times we believe the religion influences by the family, society we belong.
Some religious beliefs also good... According to Bible... God created both man and woman in divine image and are created for relationship with each other.
Ok... When coming to the point.... As human gaining and improving knowledge from the stone age... There is no problem for survival..... And overcame hurdles for reproduce also..... But are we selecting the perfect partners for reproduce, WHICH IS A MAIN GOAL OF HUMAN LIFE??
All animals select their sexual partners for reproduction in natural way.... Not in marriage alliances which is arranged by elders☺️... Birds by their chirping... Animals by their roars....
Why some people exude sexual attractiveness, even though they look normal.....
Naturally human like as their partners, who help others..... It's not about only like that helping nature.... Interestingly other benefit has been there in that scenario.... Being helpful signals that they possess good genes as well as Willingness to share resources.... Who can give a birth to his or her baby with that genes....
Strangers are sexy for men.... Researchers have concluded that this could be do with the potential evolutionary benefits to men of mating with more than one partner....
New Research shows that Women also prefer unfamilier male partners, under certain circumstances. Women in their most fertile portion of their menstrual cycles found men from other ethnic backgrounds as more attractive. The authors speculate that this could be the desire of genetically diverse offspring.  (sources: ideapod)
A study found that women in their most fertile portion of their cycles preferred creativity to wealth in potential male partners signalling good genes or intelligence.....
Like this women like musicians..... Music talent also signals good genes....
Humor is attractive to both women and men.... Scientists speculate that funny people are smart, and smart is sexy
So, what does this mean practically?
Sexual selection refers to the reproductive advantage of certain members of a species over others.
Here in our Indian system community system, dowry system, etc are selecting our partners...
Money, assets,  job, Designation, and even the country where working is also a factor in selecting the bride groom, that's partner in our language...
Then how the purpose of the life fulfilled and how cherished touches our Hearts....
Another sarcastic situation in our system is getting married in close relations like mother's brother, aunty's son, uncle's son, etc.. First cousin marriage is far more common, and far less dangerous.
When two people feel % appreciation from one another, they accept so much more than they do otherwise, when the appreciation is low, conflict is high.... This is often seen in sibling relationships because siblings don't often express appreciation to one another b coz usually they don't have attraction with each other.....
Nature is what we are put in this world to rise above.... Humans should not turn to nature for moral guidence....
Humans have social and psychological mechanisms to deter incest.....incest taboos are learned social conventions...
First degree relatives are the induduals you share 50 percent of our genes... Non human animals have evolved a host of strategies to prevent incest... Even plants possess anti-inflammatory incest mechanism...(source:Hal Herzog ph.d, animals and us)
Physical attraction is largely biological, something that isn't directly controlled by your consciousness. You can't control who you are physically attracted to... It is however generally wrong to pursue romantic or physical relationships with your close relation. Our genetic attraction mechanisms are tuned so that those that are extremely genetically close to us are less attractive.
Even Draupadi had felt that she would have been better off with some protector other than her pandava husbands, that feeling made her q turn to Karna...

to be contd....

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