Good and bad

since bad things happen in our life, we can know what is good and what is bad for us and can select the one who really care for us.

Good has the positive attitude because bad is existing.

We know the value of love only when we missed it.

We know the feel of love only when lust overflows.

We know the warmth of caring only when we experienced uncaring.

We can identify the selfless only when we suffered from selfish.

We can identify pure love only when we suffered from a cheating attitude.

We can know the value of tasty and tidy food only when we experienced un delicious food.

Marriage and Wedding

Many People get proposed everyday, Many marriages are arranging everyday.

We all know how the story goes.....He asked "will you marry me?"....She said "yes". How Romantic it is to see or hear.

But we are arranging our marriages by balancing our communities, by balancing our proporties. How  perplexed the situation is...

We get excited about the wedding day, but forget about what it means to be in a Marriage.

Which one we want to prepared for...Marriage or Wedding....

Let's look out the money behind the Wedding....

The Indian wedding industry currently accounts for over Rs. 1,00,000 crores and is growing at a rapid rate of 25-30% each year. An average Indian wedding could cost between 20 lakhs to 5 crores. A person in India is estimated to spend one-fifth of the total wealth accumulated in his lifetime on his wedding.

wedding gifts, gold ornaments, decorations, Honeymoons, outfits, food......We want to have incredible weddings, But we also want to build incredible marriages.

We have advisors for wedding planning, But we don't have marriae mentors.

How much stronger would our marriages be if we are converting them as weddings...

Wedding needs planning, But marriage requires committment...
Wedding needs organisation, But marriage requires Adoptobility..
Wedding needs a Date, But Marriage requires a lifetime....
Wedding needs a guest list, But marriage requires a community...
Wedding needs a set of vows, But marriage requires consistent gratitude....
Wedding needs a wedding out fit, But marriage requires complete transperency....
Wedding needs a gratitude, marriage requires practicality....
Wedding needs words, But marriage requires action....

We all want to have a marriage more beautiful than wedding......
It's better to have a small wedding and a big marriage then to have a big wedding and a small marriage...

Marriage is not a public function, it's a private thing which mostly connected love, emotion and feel... It's not a function, it's a promise actually. We can show and feel that feel only with few. Very costly marriages are vulgarity of wealth and exhibition.
We are ready to walk down the aisle, but are we ready to walk a thousand miles?
We can all have an amazing day but not at the expense of an amazing life....

Teenage son helping in cleaning utensils with out shy

  I pledge to #ShareTheLoad in household chores in association with Ariel and BlogAdda.

Kids and a clean home don't always seem to go together. But in reality, your children can learn some basic skills that will help keep the house tidier. 

"Cleaning the house while your kids are still growing is like shoveling the walk before it stops snowing. But though it can be challenging to keep things clean, neat, and orderly when you've got young children at home, it's not impossible. In fact, the secret is to make your kids part of the solution, rather than the problem is reveal your difficulty smoothly, Just in time for  kiddos in on the act.

"Toddlers love to help out and often feel such pride in their accomplishments. As a parenting blogger and mother of two boys, "When cleaning and picking up is part of the expectations you establish within the family, my kids catch on quickly and accept that they are an important part of making the household run smoothly and neatly." But finding tasks that are within their capability is the key.

This is my soft, Reserved, Matured elder Buddy aged about 19 years cleaning the household utensils while I was so busy by cooking and packing my baggage to a travel. He even didn't allow me to help him and done outright. Snaps
taken without his knowledge.